Who doesn’t want to keep their marriage or long-term relationship on the sexy side? I know I do!
Here is a summary of the seven tips offered by the article (link below).
Lifelong Attraction: 7 Ways To Keep Your Marriage Sexy Forever.
1. Flaunt your sexy self.
The first step to staying attractive to each other: Feeling attractive. There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a woman who feels sexy in her own skin.
2. Have sex. Lots of it.
Two-thirds of women don’t get aroused until they’re already in the act, says marriage and family therapist Pat Love. Translation: Don’t wait to “feel” like having sex to do it.
3. Be a little selfish.
The happiest marriages are the kinds in which both spouses have their own hobbies and interests, according to a Monmouth University study.
4. Step out of your comfort zone.
If your the Chinese delivery restaurant knows your Friday night order by heart, listen up: One of the best ways to stay hot for each other is to do new things together.
5. Have an affair… with your partner.
Having an affair with your spouse can bring back the feelings of excitement and closeness—not to mention the smoking-hot sex—that you had when you first met, Love says.
6. Celebrate the good times.
Couples who celebrate joyous moments together have the happiest, most trusting, and most committed relationships, a University of California study found.
7. Compete!
Pitting yourself against your guy can boost attraction, add chemistry, and lead to a hotter sex life.
Read the whole article at:
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/05/26/sexual-chemistry-and-keeping-your-relationship-alive/